Monday, April 28, 2008

Old Dog Adoption – Why I champion it.

Oh please, not again! Not another post about rescuing old dogs; about cuddling old, flee-ridden, mangy, toothless, decrepit mutts creaking with arthritis and with overflowing bad temper for that feel-good experience of an animal rescuer. Enough of it.

Hold on, not so fast. I am an old decrepit dog, with creaky joints. In fact, I live in a wheelchair. My hind legs are useless.

But my mind, my brain, my soul and my heart are as good as ever. I still love people, particularly women. I admire them and they adore me – cause I am so cute in my bulky wheelchair. Believe it or not, I am still a show stopper and the best chick magnet ever known to man. Trust me!

Why do you think the young, testosterone driven college guys, living on the Boardwalk in Hermosa Beach, wanted so desperately to rent me? All they expected me to do was to sit with them on the outdoor couch and look cuddly. They even volunteered to give me one pack of hot dogs as daily fee and free room and board for the day. Can you beat that?

Unfortunately, my human wanted me to sit with him. He does not pay me anything. What a bummer. Don't you agree that even a rescued old dog deserves better than that?

But back to rescuing old dogs. I started my career as champion of old dogs that need homes almost six years ago after I created and orchestrated my own adoption from the rescue shelter that was my temporary home for almost one year.

I had experienced first hand the deep, deep despair and hopelessness that engulfs all of us old dogs when we are thrown away like a dirty rag, donated to the streets or abandoned at an anonymous truck stop somewhere along a freeway. Many of us just give up, lay down their head and await death sleeping.

It will come without mercy on the streets or on a filthy, rat infested empty lot in a city. For some of us old dogs death is even more cruel. We are captured and used as bait for fighting dogs in training. We are deemed a disposable thing.

The lucky ones among us get picked up and driven to an animal shelter. There they are at least fed, get some minimal medical care and, most importantly, a chance to touch someone's heart. A few are fortunate enough to even find a home.

A few. Too few . . .

Even today it hurts deep down in my heart and soul to think and speak about the experience of abandonment after many years of loyal service to humans. Though distant in time, within me the feeling is overwhelmingly, intense, destructive and alive at times.

So, please spare me to describe over and over again the details of my experience, which is also the experience of uncounted other companion pets. I did it in much detail years ago after I had found myself a new family. Writing then about my ordeal served as catharsis for my soul and gave me peace and new happiness.

You can find excerpts from my unfinished memoirs right here. Or read about “Hotel Hope”, my home for almost one year.

Then you understand why I champion old dog adoption and old dog rehabilitation. Allow me to humbly add that I singlehandedly rehabilitated over ten old-timers. Every single one of them found a new home!

Is your curiosity getting the better of you? Do you want to hear the benefits of adopting an old dog? Can I sway your opinion and give you good reasons to consider adopting an old dog?

Well, many well meaning animal rescuers have written about the benefits of adopting an old animal – and even copied the reasons from each other. Most of them get stuck in what I consider superficialities. Such as 'old dogs are housebroken', old dogs 'don't eat handbags', old dogs don't 'chew on furniture', old dogs don't 'tear your house apart while you are gone'.

All true. But there are better reasons on a higher level for selecting an old animal for adoption. To put it provocatively: Would you consider taking in your grandpa (who can no longer care for himself) only because he has false teeth and therefore won't chomp down your BBQ ribs before you can get to them?
Huh?

I have laid out, defined and explained my own reasons for adopting old animals in a piece called “Adopting an Old Dog – Are You Crazy?”.

It is devoid of damaged shoes, furniture and other superficial nuisances created by puppies and young untrained animals as good reasons for selecting an old animal. Instead, it goes right to the core of why you ought to adopt an older animal, dog or cat.

Since I hate repetition and am a lazy typist, why not go directly to the source. You find it here.

Then write me if you still believe that a saved Gucci handbag is a better reason for saving an old dog.

Windsor
King


Thursday, February 15, 2007

Why Lucy's Voice? - A Word from the Editor

Why Lucy's voice you ask? What's so special about Lucy? Why are my memories of Lucy important for you? Has she done anything other dogs could or would not do?

Judge for yourself!

For many years Lucy lived as 'guest' of a rescue group, almost forgotten, rarely shown to the public and unable to find a new home. While safe and physically well taken care of, Lucy never stopped pondering one question: "Why? Why did my family abandon me?".

Abandonment, rejection, depression, anxiety and hopeless despair turned her into a mean old dog. In fact, she was known as the 'meat grinder on four paws'.

I am a rescued dog myself. I saw her during occasional visits to the rescue kennel. My human and I assisted other older dogs to be more lovable and thus become more adoptable. Lucy stood out not because of striking beauty, but because she was a living Yo-Yo.

As soon as someone neared her kennel section, she would bounce 6 feet straight into the air in a desperate quest for attention and love . . . and bounce, and bounce and bounce. No one cared much.

She was 'too old', 'her face too white', 'she was too aggressive', not flashy enough. Rejection followed rejection.

One day, I decided to give her a try. Against expert advice, I took her out of her run and introduced myself. A few minutes later, to the consternation of the experts, Lucy and I walked together peacefully past the busy rescue kennel, past people and a plethora of stupefied Boxer dogs.

We took her to a large recreation area nearby and let her be a 'dog' for the first time in five years. The moist soil under he paws, the smells and sounds of the wild made her feel sooooo good - as if she had died and gone to Heaven. Her body relaxed, her heart and mind opened up and her soul rejoiced. See Lucy, then called Beth, live it up during one of her many outings in the park.

From then on, we visited Lucy almost every weekend and took her home with us whenever we could. Lucy did her doggone best to become a member of our pack, She spent countless evenings giving me a tongue bath from head to bottom - and then washing the legs of my human in turn. Tell you the truth, I don't blame her for that part of the cleaning ritual! But don't tell him, please.

Somehow Lucy always seemed to know when we were coming. We tried to sneak up on her many times, even parking the car far away so that she could not hear us. It always failed. Every time and without fail, I found Lucy sitting in the correct corner of her run facing facing me.

Finally, sneaking up on the kennel one early Saturday morning, I spotted movement on the roof above the runs. I briefly saw the silhouette of a dog on the roof. Then, as suddenly as it had appeared, the mystery dogs disappeared. Oh well. . . it was a cat scampering across the roof.

Lucy's kennel was empty. She had not been moved. But Lucy was gone! She had escaped! Panic ensued. Caretakers, volunteers, even visitors to the kennel, were running and driving all over the place searching for Lucy. Finally, after almost an hour of frantic searches, the resident caretaker spotted her in one of the other runs together with two 'aggressive' Boxers. All three peacefully watched the commotion outside. Lucy/Beth had fallen through the roof of the kennel and landed in the run with the two boxers.

What a brave, determined soul! What an overwhelming, burning desire for a family, for a home and for love! She was determined to come to live with us no matter what. Fences could no longer hold her back. Her determination and courage made her scale an 8 foot perimeter fence, successfully squeezed through a small crack between the fence and the wire fence roof. She made it unto the roof. From there it was just a matter of getting down on the right side and she would be free.

Even today, years after the memorable event, the hair stands up on my back when I think about this incredible accomplishment. Lucy's determination to end neglect, abandonment and despair was so great that nothing, absolutely nothing, could hold her back any longer.

May her plight, her plea and her indomitable spirit in the face of great adversity be an inspiration to us all. Let us recognize the extraordinary capabilities of your pet companions and their almost limitless desire for human love and acceptance.

Life dealt Lucy a bad hand. She suffered greatly. In the end she gained what she so much craved: A loving, caring family and warm home for her golden years.

Lucy will live in my memory until I draw my last breath.

Yet, there are many other companion pets out there that achieved similar feats and maybe even more. Your story deserves to be heard as well. Friends, go beat your own drum. There's nothing wrong with that because nobody will to do it for you.

Therefore, if you are a rescued dog, a cat, a gerbil, pet chicken, even a rat or whatever else you might be, speak up and be an inspiration and a guiding light to all who still wander in darkness.
Your happiness, your joie de vivre is infectious. It will motivate human and companion pet alike to spread a little more joy.

What more can we ask for?

King Windsor on Lucy

I am starting this blog to honor the memory of my beloved Queen Beth.

She suffered much at the hands of thoughtless humans before she was rescued from certain death.

After five years in a rescue kennel a new family brought love, kindness and a safe home.

Yet almost three years after she moved into her new home, her past caught up with her: She literally died of a broken heart. Anxiety, despair, depression, rejection and abandonment had damaged her heart to a degree that not even abundant love and medical care could repair it any longer.

In a comfortable, warm house and enveloped by boundless love from her family, Lucy, Queen Beth, surrendered and crossed the Rainbow Bridge.

And I am starting this blog to honor her indomitable spirit, the great love and the boundless joy she brought into my life. She loved life. She would find the funny side of things even under the most dire circumstances. What better way to honor her life than to have pets relate funny stories, share their survival skills and contribute advice on life, health, food and to remember highlights in their lives.

Fellow Boxers, dogs and pets of all kinds feel free to contribute your thoughts, memories and stories. Together we can make sure that no one will be rejected, left out or forgotten any longer.

Let us honor and celebrate the life and times of our fellow pets, living and departed, with memories of fun in the sun and joyful Boxer noises.

Windsor King MacArthur
Boxer